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20-Something Parents > Anything Goes > 20 yr old with a 3 month old (16 messages)

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Farm_her78
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 6:01pm
Gurl don't listen to what people say..as long as you love your baby and and care for him..they will love you unconditionally no matter what kind of things they get them selves into.. Don't ever hang your head...babies are special "they are god's gift" things don't always seem to go the way you "think they will.... but it happens for a reason..You will do great...keep your head up!!:)"
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CJnPKsMom
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 6:16pm
it's all in how you parent your baby. who knows, you could already be a better mother at 20 than someone who is 35.

don't let people's stupid comments get you down!
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 6:21pm
My son is my greatest accomplishment!!
I'm 21 with a 3 year old!! I just graduated nursing school in May, while for the most part being a single parent on top of that!! So, yes, people have said things, but that was my motivation!! They are truly a blessing, and I wouldn't trade him for the world!
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Mariya
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 6:24pm
o, please don't listen to anybody.
I got married when I was 17 almost 18. I got pregnant at 19. Unfortunatly I lost my first baby. I wish I didn't . I always wanted to be a young mom.
God willing for everything.
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myangelalma
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 6:26pm
i had my first child at 15 i had my 2nd by 18
and now i'm 37 and have 6 my littlest is 2 1/2
my oldest is 20 and for the most part they turned out great
to me age is not the big problem
it's how your mentality level is!!
if you are mature enough then i think you will naturally be able to raise your child the right way..
so don't let anyone tell you anything diffrent
if you really want to be a mommy and that child means the world too you
then i think you are gonna do just fine
nobody is perfect
all any parent can do is thier best
and when the child is older and wants to get in trouble
then i don't think that is because of the parents
as long as the parents did thier best



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linzsage
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 6:28pm
Your first child is your first child, and you must learn as you go, regardless of whether you are 15, or 51!! Don't let them get to you!
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purpledaisy
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 6:29pm
yeah, just like everyone is saying, dont worry about that! if people are telling you that, then you need to tell them to mind their own business! i got pregnant when i was 19 and had my 1st son when i was 20. he is 9 now, and although he hasnt reached teenage years or anything, he is such a good and sweet kid. he loves me so much, he is always offering to help me, he is a straight A student. so it doesnt matter how old you are, as long as you love your child and take care of him, and give him a stable and loving home, you guys will be fine! trust me! you are me 10 years ago!!!
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 6:32pm
well said Melinda and Danielle!!

I had my first baby 8 years after you did Christine, but as long as you're the best Mommy you can be and that little baby means the world to you then...... you're never to young!.... or too old!!!
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 6:34pm




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CJnTJsmom
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 6:44pm
don't even listen to that. I had clayton when i was 20. and now i have my second and i'll be 23 in 10 days.
it def. depends on how mature you are and if you feel you are ready to raise a child. b/c it is def. time consuming as we all know and is def. one of the hardest jobs on this planet.as you all know..lol..but no matter if you're 19 or 30 we are moms b/c we felt that we were ready and able to handle it and we love doing what we do and we love our kids!!!

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mskiwi17
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 6:52pm
MY DAUGHTER IS 19 AND KIWI IS 2 AND IT HASN'T STOPPED HER. SHE FINISHED HIGH SCHOOL AS SHE NORMALLY WOULD AND HAD GOOD GRADES. SHE IS CURRENTLY GOING TO COLLEGE TO BECOME AN RN AND THEN SHE WILL RETURN TO BECOME A NURSE PRACTIONER AND SHE SAY MAYBE ON TO BECOME A DR. SO WE CAN'T LET OTHERS JUDGE US B/C SWEETIE ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE US. YOU JUST MAKE SURE YOU DO WHAT YOU HAVE TO DO TO TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILD AND YOURSELF. MY DAUGHTER IS DOING WELL AND I AM EXTREMLY PROUD OF HER. SHE IS A GOOD MOTHER AND SHE MAY BE BETTER THAN SOME MOTHER'S WHO ARE 30. SHE'S EXCELLENT WITH HER DAUGHTER AND WHEN SHE GAVE BIRTH TO HER SHE DIDN'T WHINE TO ME OR ANYONE ELSE ABOUT WHAT SHE COULDN'T DO. SHE TOOK ON HER OWN RESPONSIBILITY AND SHE IS RAISING HER DAUGHTER WITH THE HELP OF A VERY SUPPORTING MOTHER. SO I SAY KEEP YOUR HEAD UP AND KEEP ON PUSHING ON. DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE PEOPLE.
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lauras3boyz
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 7:19pm
I had my oldest when I was 19 ... And I heard it all. I got my GED and now in school to also do nursing.. seems to be the popular career round these parts...lol. Sweety as long as you take care of your baby and love that baby who cares what other people think... do for you and yours... leave all the haters to hate on themselves.. Good luck hun I know you can do it xxxxxx
Laura xxxxx
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madisonleigh
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 7:32pm
I had my son when I was 20. He is now going to be 19 in a couple of weeks. He turned out to be a great adult. I had my daughter at 37, and she is 3 1/2. don't listen to anybody.
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BuggaBoo
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 8:04pm
I got pregnant at 19 - and had my daughter at 20. She's 3, and I'll be 24. We're doing just fine! Don't listen to anyone who tells you you were too young! Everything happens for a reason! Keep your chin up!
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babyboy123
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 8:13pm
that is so sad. i am sorry that people would say that to you. being a mom sometimes isnt easy. but as long as you love your baby and are doing everything in your power to be a good mom that is all that matters. dont listen to that garbage!
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Wed, Jul 16, 2008 8:58pm
CSANDELOVIC
I WAS 20 WHEN I HAD MY 1ST BABY**
WHEN HE WAS 17MONTHS I HAD ANOTHER SON*
WHEN MY SECOND SON WAS 14 MONTHS I HAD A DAUGHTER*** PEOPLE PROABLY THINK I'M TOO YOUNG TO HAVE THREE BUT I DON'T CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK ABOUT ME***AS LONG AS I LOVE THEM AND TAKE CARE OF THEM IT SHOULD NOT MATTER HOW MANY I HAVE***
YOU CAN BE A GOOD MOM AT ANY AGE*** I DON'T REALLY HAVE FRIENDS NOW THAT I HAVE 3 KIDS***
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