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Dealing with a Spouse and Relative: Venting / need advice..again
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Okay SO.. hubby started a MySpace.. A friend of his from a while back contacted him threw there (female) and he has even talked to her on the phone..
He is nosie on my MySpace and I dont care.. So I was nosie on his.. He had been deleting all his messages from her and only hers!
I dont know if I should take alarm to this or just ignore it. But I kinda feel like he is doing what he dosent want me to do! UGH! Granted she lives in another state. Its just the fact that when he talks to her he gose out side and says it because the kids are loud in here.. And he deletes only her messages..
Am I over reacting?
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Sounds as if he is trying to be sneaky, but I think if he was completely trying to hide the fact that they talk he could and he isn't.
I don't think it's fair that he is doing the same thing he was against you doing. Two wrongs do not make a right.
Maybe you all need to have a discussion.
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No! Tell him to quit deleting her messages and that you want to read them because you want to know what they talk about and if he can't do that then you can just assume that he is doing something that he shouldn't.
have you checked his sent messages? he might not be deleting them also and you will see what he sent to her, and if he replies to her messages hers will be there too.
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in reading ur other post, it seems like he cant forgive u. He's doing it to get back at you. I know u r trying to salvage ur relationship, but if it continues this way, i think it's just going to get worse! Seems like he's not trying to work anything out. JMO
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| he is probably smarter than that.. |
I would be alarmed if it were me.
He should not be hiding to talk to her.
Well hey next time she calls over the phone make sure that you keep your kids quiet or send them to the other room, out of politeness hint hint, and see if he still goes outside
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I want just to ask you..ooh dont get me wrong..why in the world, either of you, would have to talk with unknown person on myspace or over the phone? You have each other and mutual friends that are enough to be talked with. Can't you have a nice conversation with him and ask him why he is doing that?
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Good idea NALLY! I'll deff do that! test him in a way..
I think your right about himnot forgiving me peewe.. I think its still in thebackof his head.. Sometimes he will make a comment likehe iskidding but I know he is not he will say "no whoring around" when i go to work.. nice huh?
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I tried to talk to him about it once and he stayedquite then the kids ran in allcrazy.. I think we are both being inmature about it all.. I guess I just dont reallt know what to do anymore..
We go in a fight yesterday about house work.. We NEVER fight.. so to reallyfight about something to stuipd was crazy to me.. I went to work wondering what happend!
Your right though why do we need to talk to someone else when we have each other?? I cant answer that.. Maybe we are bored with talking to each other.. I dont know..He tells me thischick he talks to washis best friend at one point..But I know how he was back then and he didnt have afemale as justa friend..
Maybe I really am over reacting.. Ugh I really do feel inmature though
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i don't know, but if it were me, he wouldn't even be talking to her on the phone. I would delete his myspace too. If he can't forgive you, then i don't think he should even be with you. Seems like he's just gonna treat you bad from now on.
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| OH YEAH |
I am with peewa I am sure that i would just delete his myspace all together and if he gets super mad then obviously there is something else going on behind that myspace.
JMO
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I haven't read the other thread yet and will in a second.
Have you ever thought about hiting redial after he hangs up w her. You should call her back,and let her know that you are concern about what they have been talking about,and would like to know. Maybe he is saying he isn't in a relationship,and hearing back from you will give her the hint that he is in a relationship,and to not take anything futher then friends.
Does he not allow you to be friends w any other guys? If so,then he shouldn't have friends who are girls.
I think you guys need to sit down and talk when the kids are in bed.Discuss whats been going on,how ya feel,and so on.
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Okay,I just read the other thread.
If you didn't delete your messages,and he saw yours,then why is he deleting his messages? Maybe change the password one day,after writing to her (pretend you are him),and then change the password,so you can see any replies!
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So far she has been calling him from what I can tell. But I dont know.. He has pictures of me and the kids on his myspaceso I dont think heisacting like we are not here.. he says she is married with 2 kids and she dose live in another state.. I dont know i just dont feel right about it.. Imnot alowed to have friends that are guys but I dont want to be the beotch and tell him he can have friends that are girls.. I dont know.. I am going to say something to him about it tonight after the kids arein bed..
He keeps telling me he feel like we are drifting apart.. if thats thecase he istheone drifting..
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I would talk to him and tell him that it isn't a one way street ya know. He shouldn't be talking to this woman if you can't talk to your male friends anymore.
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go to her page and see what he writes to her unless she deletes hers to!
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Sounds a lil fishy....if he's only deleting her messges..then he's hiding something. I would confront him.
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