yeah i agree with the positive/negative questioning but at times its hard to question positively. Sometimes if your kids do something wrong you dont stop and think of how you are gonna question them. I know at times i dont. But if we could do it the positive way it would make our kids think, explore and learn. no wine for me...... its 08.19am here LOL
i do like that idea but i do agree susan,i very rarely stop and think to say the positive thing,it would be a hard routine to get into. might try it though if i remember.